Neighbors: A Song in Her Heart
Mele Fong shares her love of music through ukulele lessons
Mele Fong remembers the exact moment she discovered the healing power of music.
When she was 12 years old, Fong and four of her female cousins were in a musical group called “Charlie’s Dollies” (named after Fong’s father, who managed them). One day, the girls were asked to perform in the orthopedic ward at the Armed Services YMCA in Honolulu. As she sang and danced hula for the wounded troops, Fong says she noticed a faraway look in their eyes.
“We were connecting to them through our music,” she said. “That’s when I realized how powerful music can be.”
She’s carried that memory with her ever since. “Music can help others,” she said. “It helps them to heal.”
It’s safe to say that Fong was destined to play music. Her name, Mele Nani, means “beautiful song,” and she has been surrounded by music from the day she was born. “I come from a musical family and music has always been a part of my life,” she said. “When I was a kid, my father told me: ‘Music is the universal language meant to be shared . . . it will open doors for you wherever you go.’ And it has.”
Fong started taking piano lessons at age 7 and continued to play throughout high school. “I was playing Bach and Beethoven while all of my friends were playing rock ‘n’ roll,” she laughed.
When Fong was 8, she picked up an ukulele for the first time. “I took group lessons,” she said. “I absolutely loved it — and more than 50 years later, I still do.”
After graduating from Kamehameha Schools in 1973, Fong headed to Stockton, Calif., to attend the University of the Pacific, where she earned a bachelor’s degree in recreation youth agency administration. In the years that followed, Fong wore many hats, working as a YMCA international program director, fishing guide business owner and U.S. Department of Agriculture Forest Service communications specialist in California, Washington state, Alaska and Washington, D.C.
“Wherever I went, music was always there; it never left me,” she said. “And wherever I went, I always found a Hawaii connection.”
Fong found those connections as far away as Egypt, where she performed hula, and France, where she sang with European musicians on the banks of the Seine river. And in 1996, she and her husband, Richard Tom, represented Hawaii as The Hawaiian Serenaders in a concert at the John F. Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts in Washington, D.C. “I’ve done a lot of traveling,” she said. “And I learned that my father was right: Music really is a universal language,” she said.
After 27 years on the Mainland, Fong decided it was time to come home. So, in 2000, she and Tom packed their things and moved to Maui, where Fong took a job as the assistant superintendent at Haleakala National Park.
In 2009, Fong caught the teaching bug when she signed up to teach beginning, intermediate and advanced thematic ukulele classes for “55 and better” students at the Kaunoa Senior Center in Spreckelsville. “I started teaching because I wanted people to play with,” she explained. “It was an experiment. . . . I told myself I’d try it for six months and see if it worked out.”
Clearly, the test drive was a success — and it wasn’t long before Fong’s students suggested she take things to the next level. She took their advice: In 2011, she started her own business, Ukulele Mele On Maui, and began teaching virtual lessons online, as well as ukulele-strumming workshops and private lessons for adults and children at Hale Ho’ike’ike, formerly the Bailey House Museum.
Since then, Fong has taught hundreds of students her signature strumming styles and unique rhythm patterns. “The ukulele is such a versatile instrument,” she said. “I can teach you three different ways to play ‘The Lion Sleeps Tonight.'”
Fong says her method is based on the old Hawaiian way of “watch, listen and play.” “It’s the method I remember growing up as I played music with my family and friends,” she said. “And it works.” And as a Hawaiian historian, Fong also teaches her students the stories behind the songs they play.
The only prerequisite? “Students should know how to play the C, F and G7 chords confidently,” she said. “Otherwise, it’s no pressure — we take it nice and slow and it’s really all about the fun factor.”
Given its versatility and portability, it’s easy to see why the ukulele continues to grow in popularity. “Many people learn to play ukulele by watching YouTube videos,” she said. “But nothing compares to a ‘live’ lesson where you receive feedback.”
Fong says the greatest reward of teaching is witnessing the “aha” moments. “The best part is seeing the smile on someone’s face when they get it,” she said. “That smile means everything to me.”
November marks Fong’s seventh year of teaching ukulele, Hawaiian history and singalong classes at the Kaunoa Senior Center and she will celebrate her anniversary Nov. 12 through 19 during Ukulele Mele Week, a weeklong series of special music classes and concerts. Fong will also perform in the ninth annual Maui Ukulele Guild Exhibition at the Queen Ka’ahumanu Center on Nov. 12, from 9:30 a.m. to 3:30 p.m.
To learn more about Ukulele Mele on Maui or Ukulele Mele Week, visit www.ukulelemeleonmaui.com or call Fong at 281-4981.
* Sarah Ruppenthal is a Maui-based writer and instructor at the University of Hawaii Maui College. Do you have an interesting neighbor? Tell us about them at email@example.com. Neighbors and “The State of Aloha,” written by Ben Lowenthal, alternate Fridays.