Mele Kakala ‘O Fahefa Oto-Tonga

October 17, 1953 – November 19, 2024

It is with full hearts and profound gratitude for her life that we share the passing of our beloved matriarch, Mele Kakala 'O Fahefa 'Oto-Tonga. Born in Nukuʻalofa, Tonga, to Viliami Kulifekai 'Oto and Salome Liua 'Oto, Mele was a radiant example of love, faith, and resilience.

Mele grew up surrounded by a large and loving family of 12 siblings, each of whom she cherished deeply. She was predeceased by her sister, Lolohea, and leaves behind Uike Lotu Lefai, Mele Kakala Tonga, Manuna Tulia, Pouahi Holi, Liua 'Oto, Vaohingano Tauelangi, Siaosi 'Oto, Alamoana Fisi'italia, Mo'unga 'Anau, Suliana Fatai Aki, and Loseta Taulanga. Her bond with her siblings was a cornerstone of her life, reflecting the value she placed on family and unity.

Mele married Finau Tonga, and had first child, Kafalosi. In 1976, she moved with her family to Salt Lake City, Utah, marking the beginning of a new chapter filled with growth, hard work, and unwavering determination.

In 1980, Mele moved to Pomona, California, where she welcomed her son, Anthony, and daughter, Asela. In 1984, she moved to Texas, where her daughter Michelle was born, and in 1986, she settled on the beautiful island of Molokaʻi, Hawaiʻi, where she was blessed with Kolinisiasi and Halatoaongo. Eventually, she made her home on Maui, where she passed away peacefully.

As a mother, Mele was the heartbeat of her family, raising six wonderful children: Kafalosi Tonga (married to Sandrine), Anthony Raymond Fonua (married to Yvonne), Asela Kauvaka (married to Sione), Michelle Mahe (married to Siosaia), Kolinisiasi Kali (married to Ala), and Halatoaongo (Jackson) Kali (married to Ashley). Her love and guidance also extended to her 18 grandchildren, who brought her endless joy and pride.

Mele was a woman of immense strength and grace. A tireless worker, she was blessed with hands that created beauty and hearts that she nurtured with boundless love. Her wisdom, generosity, and unwavering faith touched everyone she met.

Her favorite scripture, John 3:16, embodies the life she lived: one of sacrifice, faith, and unconditional love.

Mele’s legacy is one of devotion–to her God, her family, and the communities she embraced across the many places she called home. Her life was a testament to the beauty of serving others and the power of love.

We find comfort in knowing she is now resting in the eternal arms of her Creator. May she rest in peace, surrounded by the same love she so freely gave to all.

‘Ofa atu, Mele. You will forever be in our hearts.