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Over the past decade, my husband and I have traveled to Maui seven times from our home in upstate New York. We could vacation anywhere in the world, yet we always choose Maui.
It's not just Mai Tais and sunsets that draw us back; it's the people, the culture and the aloha spirit.
When the devastating fires struck, we sat 5,000 miles away in tears. We organized a fundraiser, sent donations, and wished we could do more.
Over the years, we've brought Maui's aloha home with us, sharing Hawaii's history with friends, recreating traditional meals, and filling our home with art and treasures purchased from Maui artisans. We've even planned to retire on the island.
Recently, however, that connection feels strained. On social media, it sometimes seems as though visitors are unwelcome. During our last visit, we sensed less warmth than in the past--something other longtime visitors also noticed.
We understand why emotions are high: the fires, the loss of life, housing struggles, and short-term rental issues weigh heavily on the community. We've seen videos of tourists trespassing in Lahaina, which is never okay. But many visitors, like us, come only to pray, reflect, and quietly honor what was lost. What may not be visible are the tears shed, the prayers whispered, and the deep sorrow we feel standing before the devastation.
Though we weren't born in Maui, we love it deeply. We hope locals know that many of us still hurt, still care, and want nothing more than to see Maui heal, rebuild, and thrive again.
Gina Sullivan
New York